Doggy Style(Sex tips for married men)

 

Men! Thank God for you, but sometimes you just don’t get it! Do you know what you wife wants, do you know what she needs?
1. Give: Put your wife’s needs ahead of your own. The Bible talks about loving your wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it.  Selflessly, unconditionally, sacrificially.  No more, “wham, bam, thank you ma’am”.
2. Be considerate:A good number of women today, carry bigger loads than their mothers did, some without support of a grandmother, nanny etc. Put yourself in her shoes. Help her out if you see she is struggling. Your wife is not just a sex object!
3. Connect emotionally FIRST: If you have not stimulated her brain, do not even try to stimulate her physically. She will a) Tell you she is not in the mood; b) Lie back and think of England( or whatever country she comes from); c) Decide there and then to tell you about all the awful things you have done. A mood killer, right? If you have been married for any length of time, you know what makes her tick. There are no shortcuts.
4. Plan: If you persistently try to grab your wife when all she is thinking of is sleep/movies/laundry, well you are setting yourself up for failure. Send her a naughty text, call her during the day and chat her up. It spices things up and creates an atmosphere of romance.
5. Use quickies sparingly: Everyday should not be a quickie day. Enough said.
6. Take the lead: Even after marriage ladies still want to be wooed. That is not to say that your wife cannot initiate sex. She can, but don’t leave it all up to your wife. She might feel like she’s begging for sex.
7. Cuddle: After you make love, don’t just fall asleep like a log, thereby making your wife feel used. Cuddle for a while, tell her sweet nothings, tell her she rocks your world.
I hope this helps some marriages out there! Good night or good morning.

 

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4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Nike Amao odubanjo
    May 02, 2012 @ 08:36:15

    nice piece of work Sola. more of it.

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  2. Ifeanyi
    May 06, 2012 @ 05:27:27

    Good advice and lovely write-up. Struggling a bit though with the title and content. Looks like title acts more like an attracting…

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  3. Ms. Ola Blessed
    Jul 25, 2012 @ 21:36:13

    Can i express how much I love you and the fact that you have decided to blog? I dont think Word Press can contain this love I have for you! I’ve always admire your strength, boldness, and courage… and you remind me of my momma (same name too)! I’m single but I’m taking notes!

    Reply

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